..:::Irra:::..
Honestly I don't believe it's possible to be in love with two people at once. Everyone has their own definition and perspective of love but their is only one true definition hence the quote "there is but one love but a thousand imitations". I feel that if you really and truly love someone you only have eyes for them and you want to be with them exclusively, having this feeling for more than one person can just be defined as wanting to have your cake and eat it too. The problem with most people is that they think any alien feeling they have can be defined as love while overlooking lust and infatuation or they are in love with the idea of being in love. If some would just sit and re-evaluate the true meaning of love then we probably wouldn't have situations like these. It's more to it than what's on the surface but people don't take the time to delve underneath and really understand what it truly means to love and be in love.
:..:Shai::..:
In my opinion a person can not be in love with two people at the same time. One comes in the form of love, which is always mistaken for love and later identified as lust. A person can be in love with the qualities that a person posses but that doesn't mean your in love with that person.
If you have two people your in love with and you pick one over the other that shows you were never really in love with that person. People need to look at the true meaning of love, and not just base it off of emotions. All in all I feel like one person your in love with and the other you lust. Now all you have to do is found out which one is the lust.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Friday, October 2, 2009
Guys Kill Me How They Want to Vow to Mistreat Women Over One Heartbreak
:..::Shai::..:
I was having a conversation with three male friends of mine. I grew quiet and began to really listen to each guy talk about how they vowed to mistreat women. Hearing them talk I became annoyed and interrupted the conversation deciding to educate them.
Guys kill me how they want to vow to miss treat women over one heartbreak. If I ask the question, How long ago were you in love? 9x out of 10 the guy would answer when I was 16, in high school or that freshmen year in college. From that one little puppy love they want to punish every woman.
If i ask a female the same question 9x out of ten she would answer 2 or more.
Ask a man how many times has their girlfriend hurt them 9x out of ten they wouldn't be able to recall but if you ask a woman their answer would be several. It's a part of life and yes it hurts but get over it, you learn from it and move on.
..:::Irra:::..
Its pretty much unfair to the women that come after that relationship because she had nothing to do with it yet she's still dealing with the baggage and aftermath of something in the past. It is impossible for people to move on if their present is still wrapped up in the past. Also, you should never let a person or incident change who you are.
:::The past: Our cradle, not our prison; There is danger as well as appeal in it's glamour. The past is for inspiration, not imitation, for continuation, not repition:::
Shai and Irra
Please share your thoughts and opinions?
I was having a conversation with three male friends of mine. I grew quiet and began to really listen to each guy talk about how they vowed to mistreat women. Hearing them talk I became annoyed and interrupted the conversation deciding to educate them.
Guys kill me how they want to vow to miss treat women over one heartbreak. If I ask the question, How long ago were you in love? 9x out of 10 the guy would answer when I was 16, in high school or that freshmen year in college. From that one little puppy love they want to punish every woman.
If i ask a female the same question 9x out of ten she would answer 2 or more.
Ask a man how many times has their girlfriend hurt them 9x out of ten they wouldn't be able to recall but if you ask a woman their answer would be several. It's a part of life and yes it hurts but get over it, you learn from it and move on.
..:::Irra:::..
Its pretty much unfair to the women that come after that relationship because she had nothing to do with it yet she's still dealing with the baggage and aftermath of something in the past. It is impossible for people to move on if their present is still wrapped up in the past. Also, you should never let a person or incident change who you are.
:::The past: Our cradle, not our prison; There is danger as well as appeal in it's glamour. The past is for inspiration, not imitation, for continuation, not repition:::
Shai and Irra
Please share your thoughts and opinions?
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