:..::Shai::..:
I was having a conversation with three male friends of mine. I grew quiet and began to really listen to each guy talk about how they vowed to mistreat women. Hearing them talk I became annoyed and interrupted the conversation deciding to educate them.
Guys kill me how they want to vow to miss treat women over one heartbreak. If I ask the question, How long ago were you in love? 9x out of 10 the guy would answer when I was 16, in high school or that freshmen year in college. From that one little puppy love they want to punish every woman.
If i ask a female the same question 9x out of ten she would answer 2 or more.
Ask a man how many times has their girlfriend hurt them 9x out of ten they wouldn't be able to recall but if you ask a woman their answer would be several. It's a part of life and yes it hurts but get over it, you learn from it and move on.
..:::Irra:::..
Its pretty much unfair to the women that come after that relationship because she had nothing to do with it yet she's still dealing with the baggage and aftermath of something in the past. It is impossible for people to move on if their present is still wrapped up in the past. Also, you should never let a person or incident change who you are.
:::The past: Our cradle, not our prison; There is danger as well as appeal in it's glamour. The past is for inspiration, not imitation, for continuation, not repition:::
Shai and Irra
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I was NEVER a believer in loving two people at the same time and often thought it was a cop-out for that person to have their cake and eat it too. However, after actually being in that situation, I can honestly retract my previous belief and now understand that it IS possible. A person can love certain qualities about one person and love the other qualities of another, hence, falling in love with them both and until you've had the opportunity to determine what's really important for you in your life and what's the priority for your life, you won't know which of the two, possess the qualities that you need and are most important in your life.
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